Choosing Joy and Happiness in 2026

2025 was so crazy for a lot of us. For some, it brought heartbreak and upheaval; for others, smaller frustrations that still added up. And yet, woven through all of it were moments of real joy, connection, and beauty. I don’t take for granted the gift of waking up each day and doing the things that make me feel most alive - using my voice, standing firm in what I believe, and refusing to live quietly. Loving deeply and laughing loudly. Supporting friends and strangers, moving my body, falling apart when I need to, and finding my way back through grace, forgiveness, and honesty. Life is messy, complicated, and stunning all at once. And through it all, I recognize that there is so much good shining through if you look for it.

Sometimes it is doesn't seem like it but I remind myself constantly that goodness outweighs cruelty, and that there are far more people trying to do the right thing than not. I’m thankful for every new person who crossed my path and for the ones who never let go, no matter how rough the road became. Stepping into this new year with just Jason and Jax by my side, I feel certain that 2026 will be better. Better because I’m choosing to make it so. I wish that same freedom of choice for everyone. I know not all people are afforded it, but I am committed to doing my part to change that. I will keep working to protect the right of others to decide what is best for their own lives and families, and to pursue happiness without fear. Archbishop Desmond Tutu said it best: “If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor.” I won’t sit quietly. Caring means showing up, even when it’s uncomfortable. Y'all, we owe it to ourselves, and to each other, to do better. To rest when we need to, to look out for one another, and to lead with compassion. This year, I’m inviting you to choose joy alongside me, and to set down whatever pain you’re able to leave behind.

A very wise seven-year-old I knew once shared a piece of wisdom I’ll never forget: “Happiness is a choice you make in your brain, and my brain chooses happiness.” I’m following that lead. I’m choosing light over negativity, hope over fear. I’ll keep pushing back against the dark, keep saying the hard things, and keep using my voice even when it costs me. Let’s aim not just for what we want, but for what we truly need so we can build a better world together.

And yes... through all of this, I will remain unapologetically extra, occasionally superficial, and forever fabulous. I wish you all a very Happy New Year! May the months ahead bring you more laughter than tears, more warmth than storms, and more love than division. Join me in 2026 and let’s choose happiness... together.